One thing to say here. For a lot of my life have been going after corner girls. Just spent an amazing relationship with me.
While the corner girl is very intellectually stimulating, there is, in fact, a reason the attention-getters get the attention, the immediate physical attraction. After agreeing with the article and most of the comments, just want to add what happens when a girl in the corner takes the leap to approach a desirable man…she gets him and then he runs after a hot girl. Corner girls and boys make great lasting relationships, and attention grabbers have more chances of successful relationships with their own ilk than with others.
There are always exceptions to this rule of thumb, but it holds true like a golden rule. I was never interested in the attention-grabbers.
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The one who will sit at the table and watch the handbags and other stuff while her friends are busy hitting the dancefloor. But you know what? All of those turned me down on first sight, too.
Screw off. But at the same time it is what we are expected to do. If your hot and rich , she wants you. Problem solved. I asked a female for her number once, long story short, it was a fake number.
I was humilated. I will never make first contact with a female again.
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It is , If a female is interested in me she will need to come talk to me. If not, I know not to bother her and waste my time. Come on females, it is Come up and offer to buy me a drink. Yes, that is horrible, but the thing is that for most women, being asked for a phone number out of the blue or without much introduction is quite forward.
I do not know where guy got the idea that that is the way to meet nice women, but it is not. The way to get a date is to start having a conversation first, and that is what women in the corner respond to, a simple hello and a casual comment, that way nobody is committing themselves to anything upfront.
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May I suggest, Jam that the anxiety of waiting in the corner can be just as intense as that of initiating, and just as paralyzing. As there is a burden on us, there is a feeling of helplessness for them. I understand that we could default to suggesting that they simply ask, but that is like asking them to just go out and work before the emancipation of women from the home, or for men to simply emote without shame prior to our willingness to accept such. I dont know. Those bulletpoints can be used to describe a lot of men as well.
But I do not think that all women in the corner are necessarily quiet, and many of those introverts already know several of those women, they are probably their friends. However, in my experience of being a female friend of many struggling single men, I get the impression many of them still want the flashy popular girl, because of many reasons, like status, immaturity and because they believed that what happens in movies is true, that the dork always gets the hot girl, because she sees his heart of gold.
And my experience, both as a struggling single man and as a friend of many single girls in different corners, is this: Many single girls in the corner are there for a reason, that they want to be left alone, at least for the moment. Welcome to the world of the average man. No single man should read this. What they should do is to print it out, tear it up, boil it in water, drink the juice…so it sets in.
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